Day: April 10, 2025

In the beginning, there was love between a man and a woman.  Then they had kids. Then came the fighting. Enter Family Court: where people go to lose everything.

There are two magic tricks in Family Court

The Silver Bullet

The first is called The Silver Bullet. It’s not fired from a gun. It comes from her mouth.

The woman says he was violent. Maybe he was. Maybe he wasn’t. It doesn’t matter.

A judge reads the affidavit like it’s the Bible. No hearing. No evidence. A restraining order.

The police show up. They tell him to pack a bag. “There’s a court order, sir.”

He asks when the hearing is. “You missed it,” they say. She went to the judge alone – ex parte.

That’s the silver bullet. Fired once, it finishes the case before it starts. The family court judge rules he is a danger. Have to protect the kids.

She has the kids. The house. He has a suitcase and a bill from a lawyer. Even if she lied—especially if she lied—it doesn’t matter. The children have “adjusted.” That’s what they say. Yes, she lied——it really doesn’t matter. Giving the kids back would be traumatic. The man spends everything he has trying to get them back. Lawyer fees. Evaluators. Supervised visits in rooms with strangers watching. The boy won’t meet his eyes. The girl doesn’t speak. It’s only been a few weeks.

The judge says things like “status quo” and “best interest.” The father is now a visitor. If he’s lucky – at best a visitor – an ever-growing stranger to his children. No more a father.

The Second Trick is Parental Alienation

That’s when the man says the woman is turning the kids against him. Whispering poisonous lies in their ears. Turning bedtime into brainwashing. The boy won’t look at dad. The girl cries when he comes to pick her up. Could be fear. Could be memory. Could be that dad is an abusive jerk.

It doesn’t matter. If the father lies, it is all the better. Abusers will pay more to rid the protective mother.

The lawyers say alienation. The therapists—hired by dad—say alienation. To add cover, they say she has an unspicified personality disorder, She’s the danger, not him.

‘The judge accepts the therapist and the custody evaluator’s findings. Parenmtal alienation. The cure? The judge flips custody – barring the mother who raised the kids from even contacting them. Not even a phone call.

The kids are yanked from mom and sent to live with dad full-time. Therapy is ordered. Not the healing kind. The kind with clipboards, hourly rates, and mom gets supervised visits if she’s lucky. If she behaves. If she pays. But the kids will never live again in the happy home with their mother. Not ever again.

She writes letters. They say she’s harassing. She files motions. They say she’s obsessed. She cries in court. They say she’s unstable. Dad smiles. He’s the victim now. The money flows. The lawyers nod. The therapists shrug. The custody evaluators sigh as they deposit another retainer. Nobody talks about the kid. The kid just floats. Quiet, confused, detached. Doing algebra on the back of a court summons.

The thing is—it works. Beautifully. Like a Swiss watch, if the watch was powered by tears and child support. Family Court is not broken. It’s working as intended.

The system is not there to help families. It’s there to bill them.

In the end…

When the kids don’t talk to one parent, and the house is gone, and the retirement account is gone, and the college fund is a therapist’s Audi, the judge rubs his forehead and says it’s all very tragic.  The lawyer smiles. And the clerk closes the file.

And the children forget, which is the point.

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